Snack Off with Eddie Huang

May 15th, 2015

“I don’t know if we should eat it or stick our dicks in it” – This is how Eddie Huang recently described a creation made with Twinkies, Donuts, Fruity Pebbles and topped with whipped cream.

If I was a 20 something uni student and living in a share house in Surry Hills, I would totally be chilling with this guy on a Friday night.

Eddied is hosting an MTV show called “Snack Off”. The show is described as “Amateur cooks, creating insane late night snacks with bizarre ingredients” There are challenges called “The Gas Station Challenge” and the host wears gummy bear t shirts. This is NOT Masterchef.

The “Judges” are filled with sexual innuendos and the contestants are praised for creations such as “Sloppy Joe Pie” as they compete for the “Golden Spork” medal.

“It’s a lot of meat to ask these guys to put in their mouths” – only a guy in a parachute track suit could get away with this.


Eddie Huang

Eddie Huang


The bar hasn’t been set super high with this show, lets just say this is the kind of show you watch at 1am when you are finding any excuse not to do your uni assessments. To put it bluntly, it’s pretty basic and the only thing that saves it is the host, Eddie Huang.

How can you not love this guy?

Bold, slightly offensive and un-apologetically himself.

Eddie is the creator of the amazing show Fresh Off The Boat,  so it’s hard for him to top anything after that show and if you don’t know what I’m taking about, check it out here.


Fresh Off The Boat

Fresh Off The Boat


And let’s just have an “Awww” moment for Eddies necklace, a tribute to his father who had a story line on Fresh Off The Boat where he refused to take off his jade necklace for superstitious reasons #familylove

Why You Should Be Watching Fresh Off The Boat

March 10th, 2015

Unless you have been living under a rock or don’t believe in streaming, you would have heard of this different new American show called ‘Fresh Off The Boat’. The show is based on the memoir of the same name by Taiwanese born, American raised Eddie Huang, he now runs a restaurant but has dabbled as a writer/blogger, lawyer, TV Host, comedian and Marijuana dealer (Take THAT Asian career stereotypes!). Eddie is an Asian kid growing up in Middle class America, trying desperately to fit it and using hip hop, black people shoes and white people food to do it. The result is hilarious, quick witted jokes and pee your pants laughter.
Before I watched an episode I made some assumptions…
It would try and fail hard to poke fun at Asian and American culture or that it would be too one sided portraying Americans as dumb white people or Asians as people who didn’t have a clue about western culture and refused to “fit in”.
So far though, I think she show has done a great job and poking fun equally at everyone on the show, nobody gets out alive and the great thing is, even if you wouldn’t say some of these things out loud, you know you have probably thought it to yourself at one time or another because they are kinda true.

“Sometimes you have to spend money you don’t have to make it seem like you have money that you don’t spend.”
“Not only was I not white, to many people I wasn’t Asian either.”
“So … I did what every culture does when Americans can’t understand something, I put it on bread.”
“Which one says I’m rich enough to be invited but not rich enough that you can ask me to donate money?”
“Love you? My dad never said that, my family loved each other we just didn’t say it. We showed our love through criticism and micromanagement, so if you said love you, you were probably hiding something”
“I’m sorry. My son just got straight A’s and I told my wife I love her. We’re going through a rough patch.”

I think the show does a great job of explaining Chinese culture to a western audience, while being able to make fun of themselves.

A lot of people have been offended by the title or jumped to conclusions based on it and that is something I can identify with. The amount of backlash I got for the post “Asian Men Don’t By Flowers” was pretty amusing, yes I have been lucky to have since received flowers from Asian men and if you read beyond the post title you would see that it wasn’t as simple as that. HOWEVER, it was meant to grab your attention, click on it, read it and hopefully subscribe – the same way this show is supposed to grab your attention, give it 10 minutes of your time to see what a great show it is and become a lifelong fan that will go on a rampage if the show is cancelled (yep, I will lead the revolt).

I have heard people complain that the father in the series played by Randall Park is Korean, so how can he accurately portray a Chinese man? Well if he can play Kim Jong Un then he can play anyone!


We can pick apart the show as much as we want but you can’t please everyone and I think this is a huge breakthrough in western entertainment.


Fresh Off The Boat Cast

Fresh Off The Boat Cast

I once had a conversation with a friend and I brought up the fact that I felt Asians tend to prefer their cliques, they only had Asian friends, ate Asian food and spoke Asian languages and as a white person, I found it near impossible to penetrate the Asian cliques. If I managed that, I was the token white girl, I was constantly defined by the colour of my skin, not invited to “Asian” events like authentic restaurants that served organs and entrails, K Pop concerts or Asian nightclubs. I almost felt like the pity friend.
The response? “But isn’t Hollywood the same thing, a clique for white people?”
Light bulb moment!

Yes it is, leading actors are usually Caucasian with the occasional African American or Asian actor managing to break through, only to be the first to be murdered in slasher flick, or the weird exchange student, the kung fu master in the coming of age story (calm down, nobody is bashing Mr Miyagi) or the villain in a spy movie.
Fresh Off The Boat is breaking that stereotype. Just as it would be strange to see a TV show in China with the main cast being Caucasians, this is a new experience for western audiences to see a television show where the ensemble is Asian. And if you can’t poke fun at yourself, you will probably have a pretty depressing life regardless of your ethnicity.
Korean, Chinese, or American born Asian – does it really matter who is playing who or if they are a “real Asian” or not? If you want things to change and stop playing the minority card, you have to embrace attempts to change it and Fresh Off The Boat is doing exactly that.
And its dam funny too!

In the past few months we have had our first Asian Cleo Bachelor of the Year, the funny and modern TV take on My Fair Lady “Selfie” with the awesome John Cho playing the lead male and love interest to a Caucasian red head. Unfortunately Selfie was cancelled during it’s first season which is a shame because the fact that John was Asian, was mentioned only a handful of times – it wasn’t meant to be a show about intercultural relationships – it was a show about an uptight career obsessed introvert who took on a project to help ditzy but loveable social media obsessed woman rebuild herself after being humiliated…. They just happened to be played by a Caucasian woman and a Korean man, yes those sitcom babies would have been adorable and I’m sure the differences in culture would have been explored with hilarious outcomes but it’s worth watching and is paving the way for Asians in western entertainment. It also said a mouthful about today’s obsession with social media, the constant need for validation, attention and concern over what others think.


ABC's "Selfie" stars Karen Gillan as Eliza and John Cho as Henry.

ABC’s “Selfie” stars Karen Gillan as Eliza and John Cho as Henry.

I hope we do get to a point where we aren’t as shocked to see an Asian actor in a movie, not only would it make it much enjoyable for me but I think it will also help to open peoples minds a little.

You can find Eddie Huangs blog here

Fresh Off The Boat

Fresh Off The Boat


Chinese New Year Gift Guide

February 21st, 2015

It’s Chinese and Luna New Year! That means fireworks, lavish gifts, those little red packets and awesome food.

If you’re a little lost for gift inspiration, never fear! I have done all the hard work for you.

I am a compulsive gift buyer, the only thing I like as much as shopping for myself is shopping for others, so check out my gift guide below for ideas to spoil that special someone this February.

For the Fitness Freak

Fitbit Flex Activity Tracker

Fitbit Flex Tracker in red

Anyone who is planning on indulging in one too many spring rolls will appreciate this little gadget. The fitbit tracks calories burned, steps and even your sleep! This will help even the most dedicated athlete monitor their health and motivate beginners to stay on track.


For the New Traditionalist

An Oxfam Goat


Yep, you can buy a goat now. It is The Year of The Goat after all. For $39 you can provide a Goat to a person in need in Mozambique, they will breed with other goats and help provide for a family in the future. You get a cute card to pop in a red packet and plenty of good karma for helping someone in need.


For Your Elizabeth Taylor

Chinese Wealth Charm

tiffany wealth charm

Tiffany & Co Chinese Wealth Charm


It may not be diamonds but what woman doesn’t like jewellery? especially when it’s from the iconic Tiffany & Co. This charm symbolizes “Wealth” and that’s exactly what you better have if you want to buy this at $1,100 AUD.  Though, I’m sure for the matriarch of the family, that’s just about right.


For the Culture Clashing Mate

Havaiana Thongs in Ruby Red

Ruby Red thongs from Havaiana

Ruby Red thongs from Havaiana


If there is one thing that every Australian should own, it’s  pair of thongs. No country wears thongs as proudly as Aussies, so if you’re spending the New Year down under then a pair of bright red thongs is perfect. Even if it’s just to stop your pedicure from smudging, most Aussies live in these and why not embrace the culture clash and mix and iconic pair of footwear with an iconic colour and celebrate the year of the sheep as well.


For the Otaku

Hello kitty Uggs

Limited Edition Hello Kitty Uggs

Limited Edition Hello Kitty Uggs

Excuse me while I let out a ridiculously high-pitched squeal! Any self-respecting, Japan obsessed, lover of comfy footwear will adore these. There are two types of people in this world, those who love Hello Kitty and those who love Ugg boots, some genius has combined the two to celebrate the new year!


For The Scent Lover

Calvin Klein Red Edition for Him

Calvin Klein Red Edition for Her


For Him

For Her


How perfect are these matching sets for the couple who like to do everything together. EVERYTHING!

If the “Korean couple style” matching outfits are a bit much for you, then embrace your romance with these complimentary scents.


For Your Hot Asian Man

Red Check Onesie

Snuggle Time

Snuggle Time

Or any man for that matter, how adorably cute and strangely hot is this onesie? This is the perfect opportunity to embrace the matching couples outfit in the privacy of your own home. How could you resist a snuggle with your man in this?.


In 2015…

January 7th, 2015

New Year – New Beginning, a list of resolutions that I will probably procrastinate starting until January 13th and break by January 20th but here goes. Predictable right?
So hopefully putting these out into the big wide world will give me a little more accountability and reason to keep them.

Be more positive
See what I did by assuming the whole world read my blog? Delusional? Yes but you know, aim for the moon and you will land among the stars and all those other inspirational quotes that fill up Instagram after photos of cats and coffee.

I read the first 5 pages of ‘The Secret’ so I’m clearly an expert on the matter, what you put out in to the universe you will get back, visualise what you want and you will get it.
With that in mind..


Hot man + kitten = Happy Nadine

Hot man + kitten = Happy Nadine

Think before I hit ‘Enter’
If you have read at least one of my posts, Tweets, Facebook updates or Instagram comments you will know I am the typo queen. This also translates to texts, uni assignments and emails. It’s not my fault! When I write, I write passionately, thumping down on the keys, gripping the pen so hard that I have broken one too many of Morning Glory’s finest Hello Kitty pens and tapping around on my iPhone like there is no tomorrow. It’s almost like I have so many thoughts jumbling around in my head that if I don’t get them out asap I think they will disappear but if I want to be taken seriously as a writer, I really should learn to proof read before I hit that send button and calm the hell down.

Lose weight
Predictable but I am female, so… duh…

Be more social
I enjoy being alone, like really enjoy it. There is nothing more I love than a weekend of not leaving my home. I can binge watch television shows, pour over trashy magazines, organise and re-organise my wardrobe / nail polish collection / linen cupboard, write lists (oh how I love lists) and spend hours window shopping online where I fill up my cart, only to back out before checkout.

I do also love my friends… I have a small close-knit circle I have known for years who I can count on and don’t make me feel guilty even if I go a month or two without little more than Facebook contact. When we do catch up, we pick up right where we left off and it’s happy times but as I look at my pale skin in desperate need of sunlight (my doctor recently told me my Vitamin D is crazy low) and think of the new people I’m meeting who I adore and might need to converse with for longer than 20 minutes with, I think it might be best to dust off my heel collection and start to attempt to be mildly human.

Blog like nobody is reading
Without sounding like a show off, in recent months my blog has had an increase in readers, I’ve been receiving a lot more support from people I know since going public and its scary as hell. I’m constantly worried that people will take it the wrong way, find my typos hilarious, take offense or proposition me to swing with another couple (yes, that happened recently). It has scared me to the point that I rarely blog but its something I enjoy and I know I have good intentions, so screw it. I’m going to own my words and blog away!


Save Save Save
Repeat after me! I do not need any more nail polish, makeup, stationary, shoes and handbags (That’s what Asian boyfriends are for, right?).
I do need to pay off a huge student debt, my trusty credit card and fill up that savings account so I can get my ass back to Japan.

Be Less Sarcastic
In case you didn’t pick up on it, I was joking about Asian boyfriends buying me handbags…
I’ve noticed recently that a lot of people don’t seem to grasp the concept of sarcasm, especially when words are on screen. I constantly make jokes at my own expense to make others feel better or get a laugh and I say inappropriate things at inappropriate times assuming people will be in on the joke… Well some of them aren’t and I think I’m coming off as a bit of a bitch and even worse, a little ditzy. So let’s try this professional, and politically correct stuff for a while.

Calm the Heck Down!
Yes, I’m 32 and am aware that my biological clock is ticking louder and LOUDER and yes I’m aware that I haven’t been in a serious relationship for quite some time and I’m picky as hell, probably a little too picky for a chubby 30 something uni student still on her L’s.
But I have come to the conclusion that if it doesn’t happen, well there is always a kitty collection to be had, I refuse to marry the “well at least he’s nice” guy, the ones who I sort of like and can tolerate but there is absolutely no chemistry with, just to have the picture perfect family, the white picket fence and the 2 SUV’s. I refuse to settle.
I can always become one of those incredibly successful career women who travel the world, bouncing between my many Asian lovers and buy my own damn designer bags!
If I am lucky enough to find myself madly in love and married in the next few years then I will take it as it comes.  I don’t want to be the 60-year-old mother dropping my kids off at Kindergarten, spend my life savings on IVF or pull an Angelina Jolie and smuggle babies out of developing countries, collecting one of each colour like they are Pokemon.
I want to enjoy my husband, secure a nice home and be financially secure before I become a mother and if times runs out, then it can just be me and my Mr Big.



So there you have it, my New Year Resolutions.
What are yours?

Birthday Time!

December 22nd, 2014

Today is my 32nd Birthday and I can’t help but think back to my 31st Birthday, this time last year I was hiking up a mountain, playing with Japanese Snow Monkeys (Macaque), sipping udon noodles and geisha spotting in Japan.

Arashiyama Monkey Park

Arashiyama Monkey Park

On the way up

On the way up

Our first Monkey Spotting

Our first Monkey Spotting

How sweet is this little one

How sweet is this little one

Chillin with the Monkeys

Chillin with the Monkeys

How Amazing is this View

How Amazing is this View

Loved this Moment

Loved this Moment

On the way down

On the way down

Noodle Time!

Noodle Time!

Udon Time!

Udon Time!

The Post Where I Get Real … (and sort of defensive)

December 9th, 2014

I’ve been contemplating writing this post for a while.

I love writing and I love this blog, sure it takes a backseat to uni, work and life at times but I genuinely enjoy writing about the things I love. I love the support from you guys and I love hearing feedback, advice and your stories. It helps me to see the humour in my sometimes messed up love life, I’ve become more confident in my writing and voicing my opinion. I’ve embraced who I am and I don’t care what people think of me as much as I did a year ago.

This blog is part of me, of course it’s just a small snippet of my life but isn’t everything online just a fraction of our lives? Facebook, Instagram, twitter, blogs and linked in… it’s all just an edit of what we want you to see.

If you watched me discussing my blog on #Talkaboutit you know that I am seeing somebody and he’s amazing, for the first time since “The One”, I feel I can truly trust another person. I can allow myself to fall for him and enjoy his company without being scared.

I didn’t want to write about him, I wanted to keep him to myself. I was torn between hurting people and doing something I love, I felt as if I was keeping a huge secret from you guys. I didn’t want to hurt anyone or start analysing and labeling everything to death. I didn’t want him to be just another silly name on my blog.

I thought I would try something new and not throw everything I had into one guy. I’m not fussed about labeling, or rushing things, I’m kind of enjoying the freedom and excitement of just being with him.

Since I sold out, my blog has gone from my little secret to out and proud. I’ve copped slack, criticism, the odd bitchy remark and some raised eyebrows. But screw it! I’m proud of this blog and I love it. The positive feedback outweighs the negative and I almost feel as if a huge weight has been lifted.

On first glance my blog might seem superficial, I generalise and stereotype but I always speak from my own experiences, I make fun of myself just as much as anyone else on this blog (did I tell you about how I have a habit of throwing up on guys?… stay tuned for that post!) and once people read a little further, I think they get my point. Well I hope they do.




I think anyone who reads this blog or knows me, realises that I’m not just going to date a guy purely because he’s Asian or dismiss an amazing guy who isn’t Asian. I don’t love EVERYTHING Asian, Yum Cha ladies scare the crap out of me, I can’t stand the endless pork options at restaurants and I know a guy can be just as big of a douchebag if he is Asian or Caucasian (or from any race for that matter).

If a person can’t see beyond the Hello Kitty obsession and this blog that I do in my spare time then I feel a little sorry for them. I think the way people have responded to my blog says a lot about them, I think a lot of people really don’t care, a lot are supportive and a lot think it’s amusing and can’t drop it – I think it’s those people who show major insecurity and wish they had the guts to be as open as I am in my blog.

My uni semester finished in a week so I will be back posting regularly then, thank you for your patients and support.

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Thank goodness I'm not THIS obsessed

Thank goodness I’m not THIS obsessed


Asian Noms: In Asia

November 12th, 2014

What: In Asia A Culinary Journey

Where: 181 Concord Road, North Strathfield Sydney, Australia

Why: Perfect for a first date


The menu does a really good job of combining all types of Asian food without leaning too much toward one specific Asian cuisine. Everything tastes really fresh, the servings are the perfect size and beautifully presented.

If you are looking for a great night out, this restaurant is perfect. The food is amazing and there is something for everyone, their take on Asian food is modern, perfectly balanced without being too westernised or too traditional.

This is the perfect first date venue. The food isn’t over priced but it’s nice enough so that she knows you made an effort. You aren’t packed in like sardines so there is some privacy, it’s casual enough to wear jeans to but you won’t look out of place if you dress up. Street parking is right out the front too.

The atmosphere is perfect, beautifully decorated with a modern hip vibe but not so hipster it hurts.

It’s noisy but not so much you will have to yell at each other or so quiet you will have awkward silences, the staff are attentive and polite, they have genuine knowledge of the food and what to drink with it, so don’t be afraid to ask questions or for recommendations.

Taste Test

My favourite way to order at any restaurant is to try a bunch of entrée items and share around, so that’s exactly what I did here.

We ordered

Pan-seared Canadian scallops with chilli puree and lime sauce with fresh pear



In Asia’s Rice Balls – Panko prawns, avocado cream, spicy mayo



Twice cooked horse radish fritters with prawn, peanuts and pork mince



Sesame-crusted tofu, Pure of char grilled capsicum, ginger, lemongrass and Asian slaw and Roti


And for Dessert?

Mrs B’s First Kiss

Organic banana lightly battered in shredded coconut and fried, palm sugar caramel, tapioca sauce, rice puffs served with passion fruit sorbet



Lychee Sorbet



They were all absolutely delicious and I will be back.

My Asian Fixation on TV

November 9th, 2014

I was recently asked to participate in a discussion about interethnic relationships in Australia on a TV show called #Talkaboutit

The show aired on ABC News 24 on October 25th

Check it out here :) or here




It’s getting Hot in here…

October 10th, 2014

A month ago I showcased two of the Cleo Bachelor Of The Year contestants, the only two Asian contestants, Thien Nguyen and Ronny Chieng.

This week Cleo announced their winner Thien Nguyen! Check out the official announcement here

Cleo Bachelor Of The Year 2014

Cleo Bachelor Of The Year 2014

It’s no surprise that I obviously agree with their choice, he definitely is gorgeous, Asian or not.

But what I am surprised at, is the fact that an Asian man won what is considered one of the sexiest titles in Australia.

oh hey...

oh hey…

Ok, it’s not the noble peace prize and just a bit of fun but It’s pretty rare to see Asian men portrayed as sex symbols/alpha males/attractive in western media. This competition was purely voted by readers of the magazine and based on physical attractiveness, something western people don’t usually associate with Asian men. If I had a dollar for every time I have heard the phrase “I can’t tell if he’s hot or not because he’s Asian” or “He’s hot…. For an Asian”


Despite my obvious preference for Asian men, I can tell if a man is attractive regardless of his ethnicity. It’s almost considered acceptable to state that you’re not into Asians but can you imagine the outcry if people said that about African Americans?

I can't tell if he's hot from afar... I may need to get closer

I can’t tell if he’s hot from afar… I may need to get closer

The Asian guy is usually the comic relief, the geek, the nerd, the second one to die in a slasher flick (after the token African America of course) and that’s if he even exists, regardless though, African American men are often portrayed as the sex symbol on TV and in movies, so why not Asian men?

Mathew Moy as Han Lee from 2 Broke Girls

Mathew Moy as Han Lee from 2 Broke Girls

Glen from The Walking Dead? He kicks zombie ass and proposed to his girlfriend with a ring he ripped right off the hand of a female zombie. All together now “Awwwww”.

I do love the show and have been known to put off uni assessments just to watch the latest episode but does it really take a zombie apocalypse to get a white chick to date and Asian guy?

Glenn and Maggie

Glenn and Maggie

How many carats it this?

How many carats is this?

I’m also pleasantly surprised to see John Cho as the male lead and romantic interest in the new show “Selfie” and his romantic interest? A red head! The show is growing on me and I love the original concept – a modern take on My Fair Lady. I hope there is a second season. Although John does play Henry Higgs, a work obsessed socially awkward geeky kinda guy, there is obviously romance blossoming for him and his fiery co star and I for one, can’t wait.

John Cho and Karen Gillan in ABC's Selfie

John Cho and Karen Gillan in ABC’s Selfie

Is love in the air?

Is love in the air?

Love Is Not A Sales Pitch

October 1st, 2014

When you know, you know and when you don’t know… you don’t listen to your instincts and keep trying to convince yourself that it will click soon.

He’s a nice guy, give it once more chance, maybe he was just having an off day…. Maybe it is just me.

Nope it’s either a “Hell Yes! Or Hell No!”

I’ve recently realised that it’s not me, it’s him and although he may be somebody’s ideal man, he just wasn’t what I wanted.




I should stop doubting myself. I know what I want, I know I can go for it if I want to and I know my heart will be shattered if he doesn’t want the same thing but that’s what I do. I wear my heart on my sleeve and give it my all, when I know.

When I don’t know, I give them one more chance… on more kiss…one more, one more. It’s draining, heartbreaking and makes me feel like I’ve kissed one too many frogs and start to doubt my prince is out there.

Men have no problem when they know it’s not going to work, they don’t return calls, they rarely give second chances and don’t over analyse about whether it will work or not. They meet you, decide if you will provide them with what they’re after and if not, they walk away and don’t feel the least bit guilty about it.

So why can’t I do that? Why do I keep dating men who I know aren’t clicking with me, I know they have different morals, beliefs and goals, I know that when they kiss me there is nothing, I know that I don’t like the way they treat me or that the spark just wasn’t there.

First impressions count in my case. I think I’m good at figuring out a person pretty quickly, the problem is I rarely follow my instinct … and I always regret it later.

I regret “Magnum PI”, I regret not following my initial instincts that popped up pretty early on in our dates but I thought he was nice, sweet and good to me, so why not, just give it one more date? Now I feel awful, I feel like I’ve hurt someone and myself. It sucks.




Sure, I bought it but it was really like that super expensive dress that you buy regardless of the fact that it’s a bit too tight, doesn’t suit you and is made of completely impractical material that you know will start to fade after a few washes and requires intensive, tiring treatment, you always kept the receipt just in case and you never quite know if you will get a full refund.

I’ve decided to start living by the mantra, love shouldn’t be something you have to sell, it should just be there. There should be no grey area on either side, why would I want to be with a person who isn’t excited to be with me?

I know relationships aren’t a walk in the park. I don’t expect things to be effortless and just fall into place but there should be some sort of spark, followed by similar goals and morals, followed by attraction, butterflies and lust.

Call me a masochist and I’m sure there will be plenty of tears and more heartbreak but I’m still looking for that one and I won’t settle for decent, OK or “just a nice guy”




The First Time I …

September 19th, 2014

There are many firsts in a new relationship… first date, first kiss, first argument, the first time you meet his friends, the first time you meet his family and the first time you spend the night together.

But there is one first every girl dreads, it’s something most people have no control over and something girls are not supposed to do.

Yes… I’m talking about the first time you let one slip in front of him, the first time you fart.





Oh come on! we all do it, as much as you try not to, it just happens. It’s part of life and part of being a human being. I’m sure even “Captain Vietnam” let out the odd fart… although it would probably smell like roses and fairy floss.

First things first, I’m a firm believer that this should be an accident, I could never be in any sort of relationship where openly farting is acceptable. I think some things should be kept for when you are alone or in the privacy of your bathroom.


The right way to handle things when they crop up :p

The right way to handle things when they crop up :p


I remember a turning point for me and K-Doc was when he openly farted in front of me…. What?… Did he just? Oh my god!

I looked at him “um did you just?”


Cue uncomfortable silence and really long pause, OK “seriously?”

He then launched into a long rant about how it was healthy to let them out and causes damage if you don’t.

OK but surely not on date three, in a confined space and a loud one at that. Has anybody actually died from holding in a fart? I doubt it.

There is just no coming back from that. We all know we do it but I think most people would prefer to be blissfully ignorant and pretend the person they love doesn’t do those sorts of things.

Luckily for me, mine was a cute little squeak and I was instantly able to laugh it off, which is what got me into trouble in the first place. I do however, have the feeling there will always be BTF and ATF (Before the fart and after the fart) and there was a slight shift of energy. It was most likely positive and believe it or not I think we are now that little bit more comfortable around each other.

I spent the next few hours trying to be serious so as to not let another one slip before I gave in and realised “Magnum PI” was still hanging around despite my slip up and like the gentleman he is, he hasn’t mentioned it since.

This is the way you should handle it if your girlfriend lets one slip guys, fake momentary deafness. If you can’t stop your reaction and burst into laughter (and if you don’t find a fart funny, gently remove the pole that’s stuck up your ass and try again) give her a hug, do not flee the room in fear, if she brings it up, have a sudden loss of memory and pretend it never happened.


As far as you're concerned...

As far as you’re concerned…

Deadly Side Effects of My Asian Fixation

September 17th, 2014

Besides the inevitable problems of being a a Caucasian woman who digs Asian guys, such as “We can never work because of A) Cultural differences, B) My parents won’t let me date a non Asian girl or C) I’m too scared to talk to you and you’re too scared to talk to me”, there are a few other problems that impact my daily life, all because I have a thing for Asian guys.

I live in an area highly populated by Asian’s, so whenever I leave my home, the chances of seeing gorgeous Asian men are greatly increased, therefore I feel like I always have to be on my game. There are no midnight runs to Coles in my trackies for snacks and no walks of shame on a Sunday morning to the café with bed hair and bloodshot eyes for a well-deserved caffeine hit.

When it comes to working out? Forget it.

A friend once told me she went to her local gym because she thought it was a good way to meet men. I think most people at the gym spend just as much time checking each other out as they do themselves in the mirror, this wouldn’t bother me so much if my local gym wasn’t full of Asian guys.

I’m not one of those girls who gets a few strands of hair delicately falling out to frame her face while she glows with a pretty pink flush after a workout. When a pale girl with fine hair works out, she ends up with frizz everywhere and a blotchy rash like redness to her cheeks… and forehead and chest and well everywhere. People stare with concern because I look like I’m about to have a heart attack, which then makes me blush even more because everyone is staring at how red I am…



When normal girls work out

When normal girls work out


When pale girls work out

When pale girls work out



And then there is the most humiliating aspect of having a soft spot for Asian men, visiting the doctor.

So anytime I have some disgusting/embarrassing/contagious thing going on and have to visit my doctor, I end up standing in front of the ‘Doctors on duty sign’ to find the most western name I can.. “Dr Nguyen?… nope, Dr Lee?…. Hmm maybe, Dr Chong?… oh hell no!”





I then weigh up my options. Am I dying? Maybe I can wait this out? Could I just call K-Doc and get him to write me a prescription? No I’m going to take my chances.

“I’ll just take the first available doctor thank you”


Weighing up my options

Weighing up my options


So there I am sitting in the waiting room, I have an ever so attractive phlegm filled old man cough, combined with a stomach grumbling so loud I think its setting car alarms off outside, when out walks Dr Nguyen. He’s tall, has an adorable smile and arms I could cuddle into all night long.

“Don’t call my name…. don’t call my name”


Crap again.

By the time I drag my sorry looking ass into that little doctors room, I could care less that this cute, smart, friendly doctor who isn’t wearing a wedding ring is smiling at me, waiting patiently.

OK here goes “I can’t shake this cold I’ve had for almost two weeks, it seems to be getting worse, I can’t keep food down and my ears are blocked”

He pulls his chair close as he gives me a sympathetic look, leans over and asks me to take my jacket off, I take a deep breath as he puts a stethoscope to my back. If you couldn’t hear my congested squeaking as I attempt to take in air, this would be so romantic.

“Now I’m just going to have a look in your ear” he sweeps the hair away from my face and puts that ear thingy in my ear, I can hear him breathing, he’s close enough to kiss me… and as he pulls away I see a crumb of my ear wax on that ear thingy… wow this is the grossest date doctors visit I have ever experienced.

For you, Dr McDreamy

For you, Dr McDreamy


“You have a virus” he tells me as he writes out a prescription “you should take a few days off work to rest and make sure you don’t give it to anyone else”

This is the stuff Danielle Steel novels are made of, totally hot right? As the ice cold, hot again and back to cold sweat starts to build on my brow, I can’t decide if I’m going to faint or throw up.

As we finish up, he makes small talk about where I work, I suddenly feel a rush of energy, it could be from the hot doctor or possibly the excitement of having permission to take time off work. I tell him all about my fabulous job and how much fun it is while I do my best eyelash fluttering and hair flicking, he stands up to open the door for me and asks me to come back and see him soon.

I ignore the part where he says it’s to check up how the antibiotics are working and pretend we are having a moment and then just when I’m convinced he’s falling in love with me, I start to cough, and cough and cough and I can’t stop. My face turns red and I have no choice but to try and leave the room while keeping what little dignity I have left, intact.

Therefore I am basically sacrificing my health for my love of Asian men. It’s a hard job but somebody has to do it.


This is red pale girls get just walking into the gym

This is how red pale girls get just walking into the gym


Cleo’s Most Eligible Asian Bachelors

August 25th, 2014

Cleo Magazine is a popular Australian Women’s Magazine and I would bet that every Australian woman has flipped through the pages at some stage in her life.

Every year they hold The Most Eligible Bachelor Of The Year Awards, where several gorgeous men (famous and non famous everyday spunks) are chosen. The men are featured in the magazine and then all the readers get to vote on who they think would best be able to live up to the tough and grueling position of Cleo’s Bachelor of the Year.

It takes a special man to be able to convey many different looks of hotness through the pages of Cleo. As voters, we have an extremely hard job to do, we have to whittle down all those gorgeous men and find the perfect specimen of sexy but not so sexy you can’t bring him home to mum, charming but not so cocky that he thinks he can date your mum and friendly enough so that your mum would love him (not too much of course because all white girls secretly want to rebel against our mothers).

Check out the final 30 bachelors here.

It may seem like an impossible task but I’m here to help you narrow down the choices, firstly we can cross off 28 of the 30 chosen ones because only 2 of them are Asian … duh! This is

So introducing…


Of course he owns a shirt

Of course he owns a shirt


See, shirt… Photos owned by Thien Nguyen Facebook


Thien Nguyen, he’s 28 and a personal trainer (obviously)

I have a soft spot for this guy as I saw him on Network Ten’s Studio 10 with one of my career idols, founding editor of Cleo in 1972,  Ita Buttrose, check out the video here

He seemed to be really positive and full of energy, his smile will make your heart melt and, oh yeah he’s damn hot too.

And then there is…



Photo from The Loop


Ronny Chieng, he’s 28 and a comedian

What girl doesn’t want a guy to make her laugh. Ronny’s profile and interview were cute and funny, he obviously doesn’t take himself too seriously which is seriously hot. I love a guy who can laugh at himself and be confident with who he is. And I’m not going to lie, after a few minutes of Googling this guy I was in stitches, not an easy feat considering the sour mood I’ve been in lately.

Check out some of my favourites on YouTube here and here

Obviously I would have liked to have seen more than two of our eastern hotties representing but hey, if there can only be two, I think they chose two pretty fine specimens of hotness.

I think considering neither of these guys are doctors, accountants, engineers or international criminals, we are slowly starting to have more positive and unique Asian Men portrayed in the media and regardless of who wins, I am pretty damn happy to see these two in the top 30 😉


"What? Chow not good looking enough for woman"

“What? Chow not good looking enough for woman”


So make sure you head over to Cleo and vote for your favourite (Asian) Cleo bachelors

Decisions, decisions, do you want laughs or the body? Or both? (You can vote more than once)

Hello Kitty Giveaway CLOSED

August 22nd, 2014

Thank you to everyone who entered, the competition is now closed.


To celebrate the launch of the new My Asian Fixation and thank my subscribers, I am holding a Hello Kitty Typo giveaway.

You may be aware of my Hello Kitty fascination since visiting Japan and what girl doesn’t like a little Hello Kitty in her life! This giveaway is perfect for any Hello Kitty fan or as a gift to that special girl in your life.

I raided one of my favourite Australian stationery stores, Typo for their Sanrio Hello Kitty Range and bought my favourite products, The prize includes everything you see below.

Hello Kitty Prizes!

Hello Kitty Prizes!

Want to win all this?

Want to win all this?




Prize Details

1 x Boston Travel Wallet

1 x Boston Luggage Tag

1 x Easy On The Eye Travel Mask

1 x Buffalo A5 Journal

1 x Archer Pencil Case

1 x Sticker Book

1 x Flat Wrap Paper


The Rules

To enter you must

Subscribe to this blog either via email or on Bloglovin

Like My Asian Fixation on Facebook

Leave a comment below or on the Facebook page telling me what you would like to see more of on My Asian Fixation.

Entry is open world wide

There is one prize winner

The winner will be chosen randomly and contacted via email and announced on September 13th 2014

Entry is open from August 23 2014 and closes September 13th 2014

You can also follow My Asian Fixation on Twitter, Instagram

Good Luck!

AMWF Spotlight – Essiebutton and Aslan

August 19th, 2014

We all know how rare AMWF couples are but I the more I blog and the more involved I get in this community, I notice there are quite a few of us around and while I think we will always be a minority, there are some public couples who are removing the stigma and are hard to ignore.

I thought I would shine the spotlight on some of my favourite AMWF couples.

I wanted to start with one of my favourite couples famous in the YouTube world.


Estee and Aslan

Aslan and Estee


Who: Essie Button and Aslan

Where: London

Click Away

Essie’s Beauty YouTube Channel



Aslan’s Twitter




What The Deal?

Essiebutton (real name Estee) is a Canadian beauty blogger who met her man, Aslan online, after months of chatting, they embarked on a US road trip together and now live together in London.

I’m not quite sure of Aslan’s was born in Kazakhstan and has a slight obsession with the country, he speaks Russian, has a dashingly impressive English accent and now works in property in the UK.

Estee’s job is YouTube and she does it well, while some beauty bloggers hit “fame” or a certain number of followers and then start slacking off on blogging (cough cough… um sorry guys) Estee continually posts great videos, Vlogs and updates her blog regularly which I think makes her even more likeable, I love watching her channel morph into lifestyle as well as beauty and she has remained humbled even with her growing YouTube fame.

I just find these two adorable and easily to relate to, even if they are slightly hipster. Estee is so likeable and Aslan has perfected the Asian poker face while still managing to be adorkable on occasion, there is no over the top PDAs and they seem really open and honest without over sharing. Their Vlogs are entertaining, fun and quirky and they are in love with their furry child, a greyhound named Reggie.





I love how supportive Aslan is of Estee’s career and interests, even building her a beauty desk from scratch and they seem like best friends as well as a couple. Aslan seems well-traveled, modern and cultured, often cooking for Estee and they are always on the hunt for arty stuffs, good food and something new and exciting. I love their interest in living a better life and exploring the world, they obviously compromise and appreciate each others unique interests. They don’t seem to take their relationship for granted and obviously work at it.




These two don’t really speak too much about the AMWF dynamic, although during Q&A videos, Aslan often talks about his Asian expectations, like having children at a young age and Estee has mentioned her love for Asian men during some early vlogs.

I do realise with all social media, we try to present the best version of ourselves, regardless of what’s going on in our lives and obviously things aren’t always as perfect as they seem but these two seem like they are in it for the long haul, a very happily ever after.